People are different. And if you fall in love with a man and think he is just a perfect person it doesn’t mean you will be able to live happy life with him. Well, it sounds strange indeed. If you really want to live happy life with your partner you should work on your relationship. Remember that healthy relationship should be maintained. It means that it requires time and patience.
Unfortunately arguments are inevitable. And if you tend to pay attention to the trivial matters sooner or later it would damage your relationship. If you are sure that your partner really loves you and appreciates you then what the point to be a drama queen. You should realize that both of you learn. Sometimes it happens that we make mistakes but at the same time we learn by making them. Do not be too demanding.
Think about what you do wrong. Usually when you are irritated you are sure that your partner is guilty. You are ready to criticize him endlessly. Then what about you? Are you an ideal person? Are you ready to improve yourself to retrieve your relationship. Sometimes it takes time to realize it. But if this relationship is important to you then you should rethink your own actions.
You should talk to your partner. Do not hide your feelings and negative thoughts. Guys hate to play these guess games. If you are not okay with something tell your partner about it. Explain him that you are ready to work out to improve the situation. At the same time he should realize that you need his help, that his support is an essential part of retrieving your relationship.
Try to understand what are actual reasons of your irritation and annoyance? Is it really about your partner? Are you sure? Sometimes we bother and make sad our friends and family members when we have problems. If you have problems at work then what’s the point to bother your partner. It is not his guilt. Solve your problems yourself and do not involve your significant other in it. Of course you may share your problems with your partner but he is not a person who bears responsibility. Try to be responsible yourself. That’s really important to realize.
If you require something from your partner you should admit that you satisfy these requirements yourself. If you are not ready to do it yourself then what’s the point to require something from your significant other. Unfortunately people do not take it into account.